Upcoming Classes

Learn live with expert advice and community connection.

Want me to teach near you?

I might be able to travel to your local studio, community center, or sex-positive shop. Organizers can contact me here.

To study with me one-on-one, go here.

Looking for a previous class or series?

You can find everything I’ve taught on my past classes page. Want to see what you missed? Stream as much as you want with a monthly pass to my recorded class library!

“[Dagger’s] class was genuinely the highlight of [the weekend] for me. I left absolutely ELECTRIFIED and couldn’t wait to discuss the takeaways with my husband on the drive home… Dagger is obviously both extremely knowledgeable and passionate.”

— Rick

Pop-Up Classes

February 18: The Animal Inside: Finding Yourself in Petplay — virtual with HVKC

VIRTUAL, Wednesday at 8pm–10pm ET. Hosted by Hudson Valley Kennel Club. Tickets drop soon.


Monthly Class Series


January: Back to Basics

VIRTUAL: Sundays at 7–9pm ET / 4–6pm PT. Can’t make class time? Students who register in advance get access to class recordings.

What differentiates a D/s scene that builds our connection from one that leaves us feeling flat? How do we balance the demands of our role with our needs for fulfillment and spontaneity? This series offers original frameworks for understanding dominance, submission, and switching and how each of us relates to our role. We’ll tackle problematic narratives about what it means to exchange power, learn to balance partners’ desires, and work through live and written exercises for naming and claiming what we want from our play.  It’s designed for players of all power roles and experience levels, and includes:

  • Negotiation for Kinksters

  • Inflict, Instruct, Indulge: Confidence & Desire for Dominants

  • From Service to Surrender: Submission Beyond Passivity

  • Fluid Dynamics: Navigating Switching

Explore the series here.


February: Fucked-Up Love

VIRTUAL: Sundays at 7–9pm ET / 4–6pm PT. Can’t make class time? Students who register in advance get access to class recordings.

Four classes on playing on the emotional edge, including:

  • Consensual Non-Consent 101 — with Jamie Joy

  • Narrative Ageplay: Stories We Can Play — with Laura Boyle

  • Trauma Play & Healing: A Deep Dive — with Adrian Sunassee

Details and tickets coming soon! Join the newsletter to hear when they drop.


March: Feral Feelings

VIRTUAL: Sundays at 7–9pm ET / 4–6pm PT. Can’t make class time? Students who register in advance get access to class recordings.

Three classes on animalistic play beyond traditional petplay, from primal play to pack dynamics.

Details and tickets coming soon! Join the newsletter to hear when they drop.

Can’t find the class you want? It might be in the works! Join the newsletter to hear when new classes drop, get a monthly pass to binge the recorded classes library, or suggest a new class.

What to Expect:

All virtual classes are live on Zoom. You’ll receive everything you need via email as soon as you register. Most are two hours long, including time for Q&A.

Can’t make the class time? As long as you register by class time (or for a series, as long as you register by the final class), you’ll get access to the recording. Recordings will be available to watch until the next series of classes begins. After that, the only way to access them will be via the recorded class library on Patreon. (Classes get added there two months after the original series.)

Get Licked! is for everyone: queer, straight, trans, cis, binary, non, monogamous, polyamorous, kinky, vanilla, and all other folks are welcome. Be kind to each other and help each other learn. We are here in community.

Many classes include activities to help you grasp material and build skills. Participation is encouraged, but never required. Listen to your body, and do what feels good for you.

Still have questions? Reach out using my contact form here.

"Dagger is a knowledgeable, thorough, and compassionate educator who knows how to adapt her material to people of all experience levels and backgrounds. Her in-person and online classes have all been among the best and most accessible I've attended!"

—B.